Every individual life revolves around success. Everyone wants to be a successful person throughout his or her life. Some people are more successful than others while some fail to do so. have you wondered why? The main reason here is the attitude of successful people is different.
They simply see life with different perspectives. They think and act more effectively. Positive attitude and behavior help them to grow in life. Successful people accept their responsibility and hold themselves accountable for their actions and decisions.power of positive thinking empowers you with a will power to succeed.
If you want to be a winner in life you must have to adopt traits and qualities of successful people. These habits will empower you to achieve your goals and live a meaningful life.
Now i will share 5 important steps to be successful:-
STEP- 1 ATTITUDE
Attitude is a settled way of thinking or feeling about something. It is one of the key words of English dictionary.
A study by Harvard university found that when a person gets a job or promotion 85% of the time it is because of his attitude and only 15% of time because of intelligence and knowledge of specific facts and figures. Isn’t that unbelievable that almost 100% of education dollars go to teaching facts and figures which account only for 15% of success in life.
Important lessons behind attitude:-
- When a person’s attitude is right it makes opportunities always under his feet. It boosts his self confidence to the highest level.
- Sometimes in an individual’s life opportunities are in front of him. Due to lack of attention he failed to recognize them. A person should always learn to recognize his opportunities.
- Opportunities only come once. If it will be missed then it can be undone.The next one may be possible and will not be better than the earlier one. That is why it is always said to take decisions at the right time. The right decision at a wrong time will not be beneficial.
- Many times in a person’s life he runs after illusions which made him lose his opportunities. It is said that “the grass on the other side always looks greener”. If a person misses his opportunities then he will not be able to get them back.
- While the person sees other’s opportunities, the others are seeing his. Other people would always be happy to trade opportunities with each other.
It is an advice for you all to become a person with a positive attitude. A person with a positive attitude will always see a glass as half full and not as half empty.
STEP-2: OPPORTUNITY
In our daily lives we come across many opportunities. Many of us due to unnoticed behavior or waiting for bigger opportunities often lose opportunities. Sometimes the opportunities are beneficial but the time is not suiting it.
Time and opportunities are in correlation with others. so it is said to be successful a person should be an opportunity grabber not an opportunity loser. Many of the successful people we know always grab opportunities. They grab them and work on them to grow more in their lives.
A person’s ability to grab opportunities make them different from others. This ability also helps them to bring change in their own world!!
STEP-3: SUCCESS
We often heard many successful people’s life stories. they all became successful by overcoming many hardships in life. Even after facing problems still winners win because they never fear to fail again and again.
What is success?
If you really want to succeed, form the habit of doing things that failures don’t like to do.
Success always leaves clues for a person. If we identify and adopt the qualities of successful people, we too shall be successful.
In order to become a winner, a person needs to get a winning edge which strives for excellence and not perfection. Striving for perfection is neurotic. Whereas striving for excellence is progress.
It’s a lot easier to improve one percent in a hundred different areas than to improve a hundred percent in any one area. That is the winning edge!
On the path of success struggles are the main thing. The one who happily and patiently overcomes all struggles will be the winner. The one who loses will leave the path.
Trials in life can be tragedies or triumphs,depending on how we can handle them. Triumphs don’t come without efforts
After every setback in one’s life he should ask himself what did i learn from this experience? Only then will he be able to turn a stumbling block into a stepping stone.
A person can be successful or a loser. “When things go wrong as they sometimes will, One can react responsibly or resentfully”- the choice is his.
STEP-4:GOAL SETTING
Most of the people have the same problem, they have no idea what exactly they want, what exactly they want to do. they have no goals in life which never let them to be a winner.
Goals are those dreams which help you to grow in life. goals with proper deadlines will make a person’s life a disciplined one. With the help of proper planning goals are easy to achieve.
one should read his goals twice in a day. goals of an individual should be SMART(S-SPECIFIC, M-MEASURABLE, A-ACHIEVABLE, R-REAL, T-TIME BOUND)
STEP-5:VISION
People become successful with the help of their vision. Successful people always visualize their goals. A person will not have big visions until and unless he doesn’t dream big.
One should not skimp while dreaming of big goals. It can be as big as possible. The person should visualize that his or her dream has come true. He should think that he is living a life of what he thought of. He should write affirmations for himself. One should also work on their dreams to make them their reality.
To be successful one must follow these habits. From my point of view to be on the path of success the most basic step is to have a “willing to be successful”. Once the person’s will becomes strong then no force in the world can stop him.
(SOURCE: YOU CAN WIN BY SHIV KHERA)